I’m a rainbow. Everyday I change colour, yesterday I was wearing blue. My family is like tropical punch. They come from Samoa, Rarotonga, Scotland, Egypt, Yugoslavia and Nigeria. When my son was two years old I met my husband. I told him “Me and you will be together forever as long as you don’t ask me to marry you”. He asked me to marry me! So I told him to &%$# off. I thought marriage was a license for the man to take over the woman. 15 years later we met up again. We got married and had our babies. Last year was our 10th anniversary, but had I married him in the first place it would have been our 25th